Dr. David Belton Whaley, Jr.
(February 10, 1943 - April 5, 2022)
Viewing Location: Leevy's Funeral Home Chapel 1831 Taylor Street Columbia, South Carolina
Viewing Date & Time: Tuesday, April 12, 2022 / 12:00 Noon - 4:30 P.M.
Funeral Location: Bethel A.M.E. Church 819 Woodrow Street Columbia, South Carolina
Funeral Date & Time: Wednesday, April 13, 2022 / 1:00 P.M.
Interment Location: Thursday, April 14, 2022 / 10:00 A.M. / Fort Jackson National Cemetery 4170 Percival Road Columbia, South Carolina
To the Whaley family,
Our deepest condolences, for the passing of your loved one, Dr. David Whaley. We are praying for your strength, peace, and comfort in the Almighty God, that He will keep you and assure you that Dr. Whaley is in His Loving Arms. Know that you shall see him again. God’s Blessings to each of you.
My deepest condolences to the Whaley family. Dr. Whaley
As a former Student I wish to extend my Deepest Condolences During this most Difficult period of your Bereavement and I Pray that our Heavenly Father Bless you all with his Grace and Blessing
And in our moments of conversation, I share this Quote that he once said to when I was struggling, he said Julius always give your Best because Know this
“Some have been to the mountain. And I have been to my knees by the side of my bed when I Can’t See it anymore.
So, I share your Sadness but also the Joy of having had Dr. Whaley as a Mentor
Our condolences to the Whaley family for the passing of Dr. David Whaley, Jr. May God comfort 🙏 you all in your bereavement.
To Kenny, Angel, Logan + The Whaley Family –
May the Lord bless you and keep you. May the Lord make his face to shine upon you, and be gracious to you. May the Lord lift up his countenance upon you, and give you peace.
My sincerest condolences to you all during your time of bereavement. I understand Dr. Whaley was a great man and I pray that you all continue to celebrate his legacy now and forevermore.
My deepest sympathy to Lauretha and family during this difficult time. I knew Dr. Whaley while attending Benedict College. I pray for your strength in the days ahead.
My deepest condolences to the Whaley family. Dr. Whaley was instrumental in so many aspects of my professional growth in the field of Therapeutic Recreation. As a mentor you challenged me and offered that push of encouragement when needed. Thank you for making me believe in myself. I know that I am not alone in this as I know you have provided the same for so many others. Rest in peace my instructor, colleague and friend.
My heart goes out to the Whaley family. I will always remember Dave for his strength, character and, most importantly, his integrity. May God give his soul rest.
My deepest condolences to you and your family during this difficult time.
We were so saddened to hear of your husband’s passing. No one can be prepared for or understand the pain you are feeling.
Please accept our heartfelt condolences.
You and your family will be in our thoughts and prayers. His spirit is gone but the memories will always be with you and the family..
May the Lord God give you and the family peace and comfort.
Linda (Williams) Jacobs and Brenda (Williams) Watts. Twins from Elementary and High School.
“Friends are like angels. You don’t have to see them to know they are there.” Dave, my friend, Rest In Peace. Peggy Bradley
I had just mentioned Dr. Whaley’s name on April 4. I smiled brightly as I bragged to a friend what a great teacher and advocate he was. That is how I will always remember him. Being an advocate for his students while wearing a beautiful smile and a welcoming personality.
Condolences to his family and friends on his passing.
My deepest and sincerest condolences to the entire Whaley Family! Dr.Whaley…❤️ so many fond memories!!! I had the distinct pleasure of knowing Dr.Whaley while attending BC. His spirit, smile, and energy was like no other! He was one of a kind!!!! A true role model and man!!!! He will truly be missed!!!!!!!❤️
Lauretha & family, please accept our sincere condolences during this difficult time. We will be keeping you close in thought and praying that memories will bring you peace and comfort.
Bernard & Beverly Mckie
Dr. Whaley was well known for everything positive that you can think of even my father had the pleasure of knowing and attending college where Dr. Whaley worked WHILE he was there…Dr. Whaley will truly be missed at Brookdale of Columbia by The staff AND the residents. He literally brightened up our days with his infectious smile. He knew what kind of impact he had on peoples lives and he showed the type of man he was while living there, he even showed us that if we sat down to eat our lunch you’d better believe he was coming to “share” lunch with us and we enjoyed sharing with him! His wife Mrs. Whaley came faithfully throughout the years he resided there. As well as his beloved children, sisters, brother ( mr Canty) and friends. I can only imagine how Dr. Whaley was before he moved in to BSL. I’ve heard so many wonderful stories from too many people to count. My favorite and fondest memory will be how his face would light up and that million dollar smile would show when he saw a familiar face. Dr. “David” Whaley …we love you Thank you Lord for giving him to this world for the time you did!
My condolences to the Whaley Family, May God continue to comfort you during the difficult days ahead as your celebrate the life of Dr. Whaley
I extend my sincerest condolences to the family:
Dr. Whaley…
Thanks for being such an inspiration to me during my undergraduate processes. Your presence in this earth realm has been exemplary. May you Rest In Peace.
RIHP, Dr. Whaley! I have always admired you and the time that you guided us younger guys. I always came outside when I heard that you were in the neighborhood. OneLove
Dawn sending Prayers to you and your family during these different times. Please know that I am here for you. I am praying fervently for you Soror! Peace and Blessings.
God Blessings,
Reverend Linda Chisolm-Haynes
My sincere condolences to my Soror and line sister, Dawn Whaley and the entire Whaley family. I never had the privilege of having Dr Whaley as an instructor, but he was well known on Benedict College campus. May God continue to guide and lift the family in the days to come.
Dawn sending Prayers out to you and your family during these difficult times. Know that I’m here for you Soror! Grace and Peace to you and your family!
God Bless,
Reverend Linda Chisolm-Haynes
May you see God’s Love in the faces of Family and Friends. Thinking of you with Deep Sympathy.
Mitchell Family
Condolences to the Whaley family. After learning about the passing of Dr. Whaley, my heart is broken because he was definitely my hero. I met him when I arrived at Benedict as a 16 year old shy freshman . Throughout life he always reminded me that I was one of the smartest individuals that he had the pleasure of teaching. I am who I am because of Dr. Whaley. There are so many things that I can say about this great man. Thanks for believing in me and teaching me so much knowledge and especially about life.
We are sending our deepest sympathy and condolences to you, Lauretha, and the Whaley Family. May Our Loving God comfort you and bring you peace as you mourn and remember your loved one, Dr. David Belton Whaley Jr., affectionately known as Dave, who was truly a man of wisdom, humor, and love. We will always remember how his art of whistling brought joy to his family and especially to the grandchildren. May he rest in eternal peace with God.
I’m really so saddened by this loss. My deepest, heartfelt condolences and prayers are with his family.
You know, the last time I actually saw David, he and I were on the golf course. He’d been goading me via messages through my mom about us playing a round of golf. Detailing how he was going to just destroy me when we played. When we finally got that opportunity, he did win but it was not the destruction he’d advertised but rather a close affair that actually came down to the last hole. I remember this day vividly because for me it was the quintessential David Whaley I knew and loved.
In case you didn’t know, in golf, it’s customary to complement other players when they make a good shot. It’s also customary for the player receiving the praise to respond graciously. So anyway, on the 18th hole he made a great approach shot that placed his ball really close to the hole pretty much sealing the win for him. I, recognizing the significance of this shot, gave him kudos saying “Wow, great shot David.” Mr. Whaley looked at me seriously then very calmly said, “I know” and walked to cart. All of a sudden at that moment I played back our entire day on the course and came to the realization that he’d actually been telling me that all day when I complemented him.
“Nice shot Dave”. “I know”.
“Good putt Dave”. “I know”.
So when I got back to the cart I sat down, looked at him and said, “You accept complements very well don’t you?”
He looked at me, paused, and then just burst out into laughter.
It was a great day. We talked about everything from sports to politics to family to exercise. We just had a wonderful time and vowed we’d have another round but unfortunately our busy lives delayed our rematch. In hindsight, I’m not upset about it now because there could be no better memory for me of the man. That was my David Whaley. When I was younger, everything about him illustrated what a man should be. Confident, smart, accomplished, athletic and funny. His handshake was as commanding and firm as his speaking voice and I’ve tried to incorporate pieces of his example into my life. It’s always said that it takes a village to raise a child. I was so very lucky that he was a part of mine.
Thank you David for everything you were for me. I won’t ever forget you sir. And yes.. I know you know.
Condolences to the Whaley family May God continue to bless each of you at this difficult time
Patricia and I offer our sincere and heartfelt condolences to Lauretha and the Whaley family. He was a wonderful team member and friend at Benedict College for more than 20 years. Dave was a supportive colleague and member of our administrative team. We wish the peace and blessings of God on the Whaley family.
Sincerest regards,
Dr. and Mrs. David and Patricia Swinton
I write this with grief in my heart, to learn of the passing of my friend and confident, Dave Whaley.
I know you took some of our talks with you and locked them in the safe in Heaven.
I am missing you already from work and the BC events. So many of us miss you. May your soul be At rest now.
It is with great sorrow to hear of Dr. Whaley’s passing. To the Whaley family, I offer my condolences and prayers. Dr. Whaley was a true Scholar and in life and a great boss when I worked at Benedict. May the Lord give your family peace and he will never be forgotten by me and others.
My heartfelt condolences are extended to Dr. Whaley’s family. He was my instructor and advisor while attending Benedict College. May the peace of God be with your family.
My heartfelt condolences are extended to the Dr. Whaley’s family. He was my instructor and advisor while attending Benedict College. My the peace of God be with your family.
Every memory, and thought about you my brother is uplifting, and inspiring. We are all better because of your commitment to excellence. May God continue to bless and comfort your family🙏🏿
Heartfelt condolences to the Whaley family.
I am so sorry to hear of Dr. Whaley’s passing. He was an instructor of mine at Benedict College and very instrumental in me completing my degree once I had my son. May the family find peace at this time and cherish that smile he carried o his face. He is gone but will never be forgotten!!!!!
Johnson , Whaley family my condolences to the family. Was reconnected with David at Brookdale. When I saw him and Showed him my dad’s picture, he then knew that he was his first cousins. He smiled and started to whistle. I would play gospel music jazz . He would Clapp and dance with me. His smile lighten you. Met some family. May strengthen your heart during time of sorrow. Will be missed.
To Lauretha and family, we send our deepest condolences to you during your time of bereavement. May the Lord give you His comforting Peace that only He can give!
Dr. Whaley was the best Associate Dean that I could ask for as a new Dean at Benedict College. He was a mentor and friend…the epitome of a recreationist!!recreation is!!! Your spirit is ever present. Take your rest, King!
Sending vibrations of love and comfort to all who loved him. Sending elevated prayer for his soul’s ascension to the ancestor realm! ✨🙏🏾✨
My heart felt condolences and prayers to you and the family. Hang on to Gods Unchanging Hand. He will provide what you need. Much Love🙏🏾❤️
To Dr. Whaley (aka David’s) wife, children and lifetime family. We, the Caughman family, send heartfelt Condolences. Our families have been associates for All my life. David and I reconnected when I was in college and started working at Greenview Park. He called Me, Lil Caughman, and was instrumental in me starting my teaching career. I met his wife and children while working at LGES. We instantly connected when I shared our family’s history. We All loved David, and will Miss him, but I’m sure We have fond memories, that will always be in our hearts. “God Always Knows What’s Best”. Until we meet again “SIP” father, brother, uncle and my friend.
My deepest prayers for the family of Dave. one of my life long friends. May Gods Peace be with you all.
Our heartfelt sympathy and condolences to you and your entire family for our long time friend and mentor.
May your family continue to be richly blessed.
The Pindar Brothers
Robert & George
My love, condolences & prayers go out to you, Lauretha & family. May your memories of great times, inside jokes & wonderful memories contribute to a peace that surpasses understanding. I did not know David but knowing you Lauretha from high school forward, tells me the kind of man he was. God bless you all.
Dr.Whaley a man of character, confidence ,and gregarious personality that affected others .Being my Chair and Academic Professor from 1980-1984 at Benedict , he taught me how to excell in what ever I sought to do I life academically , athletically and professionally. Rest easy Dr. Whaley
Lauretha, our love and Prayers are with you and the family from your friends in Vegas… Ron and Pat Foster
My heartfelt condolences to you Lauretha and family, may God provide you with peace and comfort.
My condolences to the Whaley family. It’s was a pleasure taking care of David. I’ll always remember you and I enjoyed our dancing, laps around Brookdale and our lunch break…and I’ll never forget that smile! Rest in Heaven my friend 🙏🏾
My Deepest Condolences for David’s passing. Prayers, for your family. Lauretha, it is diffucult to lose your Spouse. Take it one day at a time. Continued, Prayers for Blessings, Guidance, and Strength.
David ny dancing and music partner ,what a joy to be in your presence. Thanks for always enjoying music with me and dancing every morning ,gonna miss your smile ,God bless your family and friends. Brookdale won’t be the same without you 💔 rest in peice and with the lord 🙏 stephani (overnight caregiver ) Brookdale senior living
Dr. Whaley touched the hearts and souls of every one that he met. His joyful spirit was always genuine and a rare trait that made him special in the lives of those he touched as an educator, friend, and mentor. May the Peace of the Lord be forever with you.
Sending love, heartfelt prayers and condolences to Lauretha and the Whaley Family. I met you and David through some dear friends, Ronald and Patricia Foster who now reside in Las Vegas, Nevada. We were blessed to be guests at your home at Christmas many years ago. At that time I found out that David and my late sister Ernestine Lindsay White Dunbar were classmates at Allen University. May our God comfort, strengthen, and give the Whaley Family peace today and for the days to come.
Drew Park Shark…
I met David at Little League baseball tryouts: He played to win –smart, skillful, dedicated, poised, on-purpose, proficient, high performing, and so personable. We rallied to his leadership. We loved him. In Dave, we all got to see the manhood-at-its-best sermon. Thank you for your love and light.
Mr. Whaley was my teacher at Benedict College and we also attended the same church. My condolences to his family. Great man, God bless
My thoughts and prayers are with the Whaley family. May God give you the comfort and peace you need during this difficult time. Your Hampton family loves you and will continue to lift you in prayer. ~God bless you~
OLD MILITARY HORNETS NEVER DIE THEY JUST FLY AWAY,MAY THE LORD CONTINUE TO BLESS THE WHALEY FAMILY, AMEN
Mr.Whaley will truly be missed here at the Brookdale community. His smile, laughter and dance would brighten up day. My condolences to the family.
Mr. Whaley will truly be missed here at Brookdale community.. His smile and laugh and dance would always brighten up your day.
Sincere condolences to the Whaley Family. I met David as classmate at C. A. Johnson High, Allen University and professionally as Dr. Whaley at Benedict College. Additionally, he was my brother as a member of Kappa Alpha Psi Fraternity – Beta Rho Chapter at Allen University.
David will be truly missed at Brookdale.He was truly a ray of sunshine.Sending prayers out to the Whaley family
I met my friend when we were ten yrs. old. He was a very inspiring, thoughtful and jovial person. I will miss him dearly.
Praying for you and your family.
There are no words for the legacy Mr. David has left on the Brookdale Family his shining personality will live on in our hearts. You will be Truly missed.
LaTarra Lewis & The Lewis Family
My prayers are with the family. He was an amazing man, fun to be around and never a dull moment. May he rest in the arms of Our Saviour!!
I will always remember Dr. Whaley’s business walk across campus. Very seldom, while a student at B.C., did I not see him on the way to somewhere to do something important. Highly respected but approachable faculty member of Benedict. Our B.C. family will miss you. Take your rest “where the golden sunshine falls.” Thank you for making my daughter CoWren laugh and smile. Praying for comfort and peace for his family.
To the family y’all have my heartfelt condolences and to David I will truly miss you I really had enjoy working with you down at Brookdale Columbia may you rest in peace, but never forgotten
My most sincere condolences to the Whaley family. As a member of our Bethel AME Church family my most greatest memory of Bro. Whaley was a trip sponsor by the Live, Love and Learn Senior Ministry on a sightseeing trip to the African American Museum, Washington, DC. He was so delightful, jovial and happy a joy to be in his company. A joyful and accommodating spirit and he sure love whistling. Prayers for the family.
Prayers for the family and friends. May the Lord hold you on every leaning side.
RIP my brother of Kappa Alpha Psi and friend. David help made me a Kappa he will be greatly missed
Thank You For Being A Part Of My Journey. I Love You Forever Unc. I Will Use All Of the Advice & Life Lessons Going Forward.
To the Family of Dr. David B. Whaley, Jr.,
Our thoughts and prayers are with the entire family and friends. Please hold close the memories that you shared.
As a member of Cedar Grove United Methodist Church Family in Conley, GA where the Edmonson Family (Nichelle, Frederic, Alice and Nicholas) are members, we share in your sorrow.
My condolences to the family of Dr. Whaley. He made an outstanding contribution to the development of a generation of professionals who will always cherish the memories of him as their mentor and friend. We were fortunate to have shared quality time with this great human being. Hold on to the memories and let them comfort you. Dr. Whaley will be missed, but he will always be with us in our hearts and minds.
My heart goes out to you and your family for the loss of your husband. I hope your happy memories will help you through this difficult time.
Words cannot possibly convey our deepest sympathy. We are praying for you, Lauretha, and the Whaley family.
My deepest condolences to the Whaley Family.
Our family has lost a wonderful Person. I lost a wonderful cousin. My love and regards to Lauretha, his children, sisters, nieces and nephews. Rest in place Dave. I will always remember your Smile.
I am Ron Adderley a Kappa from Florida and a classmate of the class of 66. David was a brother that always willing to push others to achieve.
My prayers are withe the family.
To Lauretha, Danielle, Kenny, Dawn. Dee, and Linda and family.
I understand this process well .
May our Heavenly Father continue to give you His grace as you embrace Uncle Dave”s Life memories.
I Thank God for a Uncle who spent time with me and his other nieces and nephews in our formative years and taught us how to swim. I will miss you.
You showed me what a real image of a Uncle should look like.
My deepest condolences and prayers to the family of Dr. David Whaley!
I am Cyrus Washington, a Kappa who was made by David Whaley.
He was a dear frat brother who
was an inspiration to me. I extend
my love and condolences to his family.
My heartfelt condolences to the family of Dr. David B. Whaley. Please know that you all are in my thoughts and prayers. He was one of my great supervisors at Benedict College in the Office of Student Affairs. He had a heart for the students and the people that worked under him. Thank you so much for sharing him with the Bendict College family. May God comfort you all during this time. Love Cassandra Williams
Dr. Whaley continues to be a blessing to the community, the colleges (Allen, Benedict & Clemson), and to all who were privileged to know him and benefited from his scholarship, friendship and legacy. Lauretha and family you are in our prayers and have our condolences in this time of sorrow.
Helpful, honest, humorous, and kind…
Helpful, honey, humorous, and kind…these were the qualities that Dr. Whaley willingly shared. Blessings to the family and God’s peace. Thank you for sharing him with the Benedict College community.
Lauretha, my heartfelt condolence to you and your family.
My heartfelt condolences to the family of Dr. David Whaley. Dave was an exceptional gentleman, scholar and athlete. A true friend since our days at Howard Elementary School, Dave will always be remembered for his tremendous accomplishments.
Prayers of comfort go up for my aunt, cousins, our family. Uncle Dave was shining example of a man and leader that we loved admired and respected. He always gave encouraging and wise guidance, and he was the coolest uncle ever. It was a blessing to know him.
With sincere condolences to the family on the passing of your love one. Sister Lauretha love and prayers to you and the family as you are going through these challenging days. Stay strong as you can and lean on each other.
The Brown’s (Dale&Brenda)
To the Whaley family, y’all have my condolences, Mr.
Whaley was one of my teacher’s at Benedict College in the 1980’s.Yall are in my prayers.
May God continue to bless the Whaley family! May the family find comfort in knowing that he was love and respect.
My heartfelt condolences to the Whaley family . May your memories of his life be with you forever . Dr. David Whaley, Jr., was a great leader and a very positive influence to many. He touched the hearts of many from Allen University, Benedict College, S. C. Parks and Recreation and many other community agencies. I pray God’s blessing to the Whaley family.
Our sincere condolences to Lauretta & the Whaley family. Dave was a long time friend of mine, an avid sportsman & a distinguished professor at Benedict College. I have many fond memories of the friendship we shared over the years. May God’s peace be with the family during this time of sorrow.
Coach Willie Washington & family
My Condolences goes out to the family sorry to hear about the passing of David we will continue to keep you all in prayer Love you family .
My heart is deeply saddened by the loss of my dear Uncle Dave, who meant the world to me. While I’m saying this from my perspective, I’m confident that my point of view is widely shared in this sphere of his family and friends. Anyone who’s had an influential uncle in their lives, understands how those individuals can be like a second father. When you think about it, that’s what a true uncle should be. By that definition, my Uncle Dave IS a true uncle. Although, he was a cool uncle, he wasn’t “the” cool uncle that would just let you get away with anything. Watching someone that was a relative of mine that I was so fond of, had a tremendous influence on who I’ve become. Obviously, there are many others in my life that have molded me, but today I’m sharing what I love about my Uncle Dave. Knowing that Uncle Dave was on the staff at Benedict, made me more comfortable with the idea of attending college myself, and particularly Benedict. He is not only an uncle to me, but a life mentor that demonstrated on a daily basis how joyous life can be. I will truly miss his hugs, his smile and the “whistle” that signaled that his presence was near. I have so many cherished memories of Uncle Dave, and he has been such an influence on my life that I will always miss him, but know he will always be a part of who I am.
Rest in peace with God, Uncle Dave. You certainly deserve it.
Please accept our heartfelt condolences during this sad time. May God grant you peace and comfort in the days ahead.
My condolences to the Whaley family. May his legacy live on through his family. Peace and blessings 🙏
My condolences to you and your family praying for you all
Sorry to hear about your loss, God will be with your family always. My Deepest sympathy.
Dr.David B. Whaley jr. Someone so special will not be forgotten.
My Deepest sympathy and condolences to the Whaley family.
Rest in peace, Dr. Whaley.
To the Whaley family, my sincere condolences in the loss of your loved one. Dave always exhibited a steady, consistent and kind demeanor when he served as dean of pledgees for my pledge line into Kappa Alpha Psi Fraternity at Allen University in the early sixties. Throughout our intermittent contact over many years, he always showed himself to be a true man of character and was admired as a frat brother for his personality and many achievements in his chosen career. May God’s blessings comfort you as you mourn his passing!
David”shrimp” AS WE called him,tuff in sports and a classy guy.He seemed to never give up until he was on top.
family man always liked by all he met. But the word of God speaks.Take your rest friend a well earned one.
To the Whaley family members my heart was sadden by the passing of a wonderful friend. The Whaley family and I go back to childhood days. I will remember his soft spoken voice and kindness.Keeping you all in love and prayer!
Our condolences to Lauretha, your children and rest of the family. We are flooded with memories of Bethel’s basketball league and Christmas fellowships that we shared with you, Dave and your family. May God’s love and memories comfort you all during this time.
Peace be Unto the Family. Dr. David Whaley was one of the first Park Directors of Greenview Park. He worked along with my father,Paul Clinkscale in the early years of Greenview Park. Well, respected by our Greenview community. A strong leader among young black men during his time at Greenview Park. Your light will forever shine upon Greenview.
To the Whaley and Wilson Family you have our deepest condolences.
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Please accept my condolences, my heart is with you all family during your time of grievement. David has gone home to be with the Lord and the rest of our family. Such a beautiful person. May you all find peace 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 Rest easy David
We are saddened to hear of the passing of our dear brother, Brother Dr. David B. Whaley, Jr. (Beta Rho Chapter at Allen University Spr. 1964) Please accept our sincerest condolences during this difficult time. May the memories and the care of those around provide comfort.
With sympathy,
Columbia (SC) Alumni Chapter
Kappa Alpha Psi Fraternity, Inc.